My husband, Andy, and I are approaching the five-year mark of trying to have a baby in July 2007. At the recommendation of some who know our story, I’ve finally decided to take the time to create a blog about our struggles through infertility and our hopes of adoption in the future. The purpose of this blog is to share my heart with family and friends and to inspire and encourage others. It is my hope that anyone who has ever had a prayer go unanswered or wanted something “good” and didn’t get it might be encouraged by what we’ve learned. If you visit the site each week you will eventually see how God has used something that might seem unfortunate to bless us. He’s just great like that! Feel free to pass the link to this blog on to anyone you feel might benefit from reading it.
Most of the early entries will be backtracking. It’s an incredible blessing to go back to the beginning and see what my frame of mind was then and how far God has brought me/us. Andy and I are full of hope in God and excitement for what is to come. We are also humbled and thankful for everyone who has uttered a word of prayer on our behalf through the past four + years. Thank you all, and may God bless you in tremendous ways like he has us!
Disclaimer: If you are facing infertility or know someone who is, please know that I do not view our path as “right” and every other way as “wrong.” While I do believe scripture to be abundantly clear on many moral issues, the issue of whether or not to pursue certain infertility treatments is not directly addressed in the Bible. Furthermore, our choice not to pursue fertility treatment was not due to a specific interpretation of the scripture but rather to a sense of the Spirit’s leading of our lives at that time. God’s direction for one person facing infertility might be different for the next person. That is why it is so important that we seek Him and trust the leading of the Spirit in making decisions about our lives. I ask that you read this knowing that this is how God chose to work in our lives and know that I am not casting judgment on anyone in whose life He’s chosen to work differently. We grow when we face challenges, and the God who knows us best knows what we need.
Next Post: Tuesday, March 13, 2007
This is for anyone who's ever had a prayer go unanswered, for those who have wished for something you thought was "good" but didn't get it. Even if you can't relate exactly to this topic, you might be able to relate to the principles. Men, if you and your wife are going through this now, I pray that here you get some insight into her soul. Women, I pray you see that you are not alone and there is hope. Your blessings might just come in a different form and time than you once thought!
Isaiah 40:31
"But, those who hope in the LORD will renew their strength. They will soar on wings like eagles; they will run and not grow weary, they will walk and not be faint."
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7 comments:
I look forward to reading this. We love you guys! Thanks for being so transparent.
You are amazing! I am so impressed with your faith and your love for others and God. You and Andy are in my prayers. Lindsay
I can't wait to hear about your journey!
Andy and Michelle are awesome examples and an inspiration to all of us...this by the power of Jesus. Thanks, Andy and Michelle, thanks for teaching us all. Whether or not one has been through what you two have experienced, like you said, it's applicable to us all in many different ways. thanks for being our friend.
Love.
Your Friend, Joey
Obstacles are inevitible and everyone has at least one in their lifetime. Everyone's endeavor is very different no matter the perception. I'm very proud of you for being so faithful, strong and positive in your life's test. I love you very much!
i'm so glad you are doing this. i am very much looking forward to what you write, and looking even more forward to seeing how God continues to use you and bless you on this road that you're on. thanks for sharing your innermost thoughts so selflessly. love you guys.
I am proud to be your friend... you really are a breath of fresh air, and I love you!
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